Dry spell, Drought, Dry season… A sexless life?!?!? Well, this is a phase most of us go through. I have been very active in the dating scene for quite some time but I am at the time of my life wherein I am more focused on a lot of other things. For starters, I just became a Grandma 7 months ago. I am enjoying it to the fullest. Sometimes that I am so busy taking care of my grandson I don’t have time to think about other stuff, well dating for one. I’ve never given much thought about celibacy in the past few years but it’s quite liberating not thinking about any sexual thoughts. No pressure of looking great or performing well in bed. Some might even say that, Yeah! you don’t have a partner that’s why you’re blogging about this stuff. But does it really matter in life? Is it a big deal? Hell, no! Who would’ve thought I will reach this point in my life.
Nowadays, Sex can be so easy to get. Let’s face it. More and more people are open to one night stands, they are more adventurous and would go for a less complicated attachment. I never thought I would reach a point in my life when sex is no longer a desire or a need on my end. I would be a hypocrite to say that I don’t like sex anymore but it’s a good state of mind not being able to think or worry about it. Sex is great, Sex is awesome and Sex can be so AMAZING with the right partner and at the right time of your life. But when you hit a slump or a slow pace it’s not the end of the world.
Who knows my dry spell can end soon or it may remain for as long as I want. It doesn’t matter though. I am still young at 42, happy, busy, healthy and living my life to the fullest. When it comes, it comes. Just like the rain ending a dry season or drought.